Yazidi marriage as a factor in preserving national identity
Yazidi marriage is a very specific phenomenon, because it differs from those situations that take place among other peoples who live next to Yazidi people. Previously, Yazidis, as a rule, married early, at 16-19 years old, divorces in general were not approved and are not approved, but the cases are different.
Until now, the Yazidi society has retained a double mindset about starting a family, getting married, some, as in the past, believe that families should be created at an early age, while others say "everything in its own time".
Yazidi marriage is also distinguished by a high level of mutual respect, many Yazidi women do not work because they deal with issues of children, domestic economy, and this, as we know, is a very big job. Raising children, ensuring their educational process, physical fitness, a Yazidi woman deals with all household issues, and this is a huge job, every Yazidi man should understand this, appreciate and respect the work of his wife. Respect for his wife, respect and love for her is in the first place in the Yazidi family, and this tradition should not only be preserved, but also developed. The authority of the Yazidi wife should only increase, but not decrease in any way. My late uncle Shabab Aloyan enjoyed great respect among Yazidi people, he raised a toast at one of the Yazidi weddings and said: "Dear friends, let's drink to our Yazidi women. Our women are those who ensure our future, nothing will happen without them, no one will do the colossal work that they do, no man can do it. God has given a woman great inner strength, energy, a woman is the support and support of her husband. The one who loves, appreciates, respects his wife, and God will love and help him. But if you offend your wife, hurt her, do not respect her, then you will not see good."
In my opinion, if a man left his wife, and if he also left with a child, then I will tell you for sure, this person will not see good, because he broke lives. In no case do not give in to emotions, feelings, be able to forgive, compromise, build relationships.
Rustam Aloyan
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Yazidi marriage as a factor in preserving national identity
Yazidi marriage is a very specific phenomenon, because it differs from those situations that take place among other peoples who live next to Yazidi people. Previously, Yazidis, as a rule, married early, at 16-19 years old, divorces in general were not approved and are not approved, but the cases are different.
Until now, the Yazidi society has retained a double mindset about starting a family, getting married, some, as in the past, believe that families should be created at an early age, while others say "everything in its own time".
Yazidi marriage is also distinguished by a high level of mutual respect, many Yazidi women do not work because they deal with issues of children, domestic economy, and this, as we know, is a very big job. Raising children, ensuring their educational process, physical fitness, a Yazidi woman deals with all household issues, and this is a huge job, every Yazidi man should understand this, appreciate and respect the work of his wife. Respect for his wife, respect and love for her is in the first place in the Yazidi family, and this tradition should not only be preserved, but also developed. The authority of the Yazidi wife should only increase, but not decrease in any way. My late uncle Shabab Aloyan enjoyed great respect among Yazidi people, he raised a toast at one of the Yazidi weddings and said: "Dear friends, let's drink to our Yazidi women. Our women are those who ensure our future, nothing will happen without them, no one will do the colossal work that they do, no man can do it. God has given a woman great inner strength, energy, a woman is the support and support of her husband. The one who loves, appreciates, respects his wife, and God will love and help him. But if you offend your wife, hurt her, do not respect her, then you will not see good."
In my opinion, if a man left his wife, and if he also left with a child, then I will tell you for sure, this person will not see good, because he broke lives. In no case do not give in to emotions, feelings, be able to forgive, compromise, build relationships.
Rustam Aloyan
Tags: #yazidisinfo #aboutyazidis #newsyazidis #traditionyazidis
